Single parenting is not an easy choice to make. You will have many days where you might not think you can make it. Even though we're glad you chose life, we want to make sure that you are not putting yourself into a stressful and harmful situation. Remember to learn about all of your options! Our pregnancy center advocates are ready to assist you in discovering all the support services that exist in your area. We exist to support you throughout your pregnancy and beyond!Single Parenting
Here are some questions to consider about single parenting:
If I can't afford to live on my own, where can I live with my baby?
We can help you explore your housing options before you deliver. Most single parents need to work. Consider your childcare options in each situation:
Living with a friend or relative
Staying in a group home for single mothers
Living with your parents or the birthfather's parents
Finding an apartment in public, subsidized housing
Can anyone help me with baby items, maternity clothes, etc.?
1st Choice Women's Resource Center cares about your baby's needs. We can help you with maternity clothes, and offer a baby bundle after the baby is born, and continued support and contact through your baby's first year. We will give you community referrals
to help you find other needed items and support.
How do I get support from the father?
The father's
legal responsibilities include providing financial support for
your child. Most states have a child support enforcement agency
that will withhold money from his paycheck if he is unwilling to
pay. If the father is unable to provide child support, you need
to plan how you will care for your baby without him. A
birthfather's support record may influence court decisions about
custody and visitation rights.
In some states, the father's name is not even put on the birth
certificate unless you request it. If he has signed a notarized
paternity affidavit, he may have legal rights, including
visitation and the right to deny or consent to medical decisions
for your child. Our counselors will provide more details about
the birthfather's rights and responsibilities. You and the
father should also discuss your individual rights and
responsibilities. A child's needs are best met when you and the
father work together.I
still choose adoption later if parenting doesn't work out?
If single parenting becomes too difficult and you decide to consider adoption, making an adoption plan is still an option. It takes courage to realize that by yourself you cannot provide all that your child needs. But separating from a child with whom you have bonded can be difficult. We will be happy to connect you with several adoption agencies in your area that can help you.
Call us. (843) 264-4000
All services are free and confidential.