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Are you visiting this
site to help a friend
who may be in a crisis
pregnancy? If so, they
are very fortunate to
have someone like you in
their life that cares
enough to help with
information and support.
Your friend is probably
very scared about a
possible pregnancy. It
could be that she's
experiencing panic and
insisting that abortion
is her only choice. The
first thing you should
do is to encourage her
to confirm the pregnancy
at our center. She
doesn't need to make any
decisions until she is
sure that she is
pregnant. Please
consider coming with her
for the visit. Our tests
are free and we won't
tell anyone of your
visit to our center.
Many of our consultants
have been through a
crisis pregnancy and and
are there to help you
explore your options.
Our assistance is caring
and compassionate.
When our clients have a
positive pregnancy test
we take the time to
provide them with
detailed information
about all her options -
single parenting,
marriage, adoption or
abortion - and our
extensive support
services. Many women
initially feel like they
have no other choice but
to abort their babies.
With our physical and
emotional support
services many realize
that they have the
ability to single
parent, get married or
place their baby for
adoption.
If your friend is
pregnant please
understand that her
decision could affect
you. If she wants an
abortion encourage her
to take the time to
investigate all her
options. There is no
reason to rush or panic.
Understand that many
friends who accompanied
women to abortion
facilities discovered
that they felt
"responsible" and were
even traumatized by the
experience afterwards.
Abortion isn't a safe
and easy option for
anyone involved. Many
women who have had
abortions share that
they held deep anger
against individuals who
assisted with their
abortions because "they
didn't stop them" from
making a choice that
they would later regret.
This could be a moment
in time that you
remember for the rest of
your life. Be sure to
allow those memories to
be "comfortable" by
providing her with the
best support available
through our center.
Help her to learn more
about what a preborn
child looks like:
Regardless of your
feelings about abortion,
it's best to offer your
friend everything that
can help her make an
informed decision. If
she determines to abort,
you won't be any less of
a friend if you don't
accompany her to the
facility. Encourage her
to visit our center and
learn about all her
options. In doing so you
will be able to look
back at this time and
understand that you
truly helped her in a
time of need!
If you are the father of
the baby, visit our "For
Men" page for more
specific information.
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