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Abortion
If you are considering an
abortion, we want you to know what this choice could
mean to your future. You do have the choice not to have
an abortion and we can help. We want to help you avoid
being hurt physically and emotionally by offering
solutions.
You don't need to make this decision right away. Slow
down and allow time to think. Don't let anyone tell you
that you have to have an abortion. We exist to help you
explore your options. There are risks to most abortion
procedures. Because of these dangers we do not recommend
or refer for abortion.
Here are some things to consider before you make this
decision:ible risks
in an abortion
From the thousands of women now working in the pregnancy
care world who have had abortions, we know that abortion
has physical, emotional, spiritual and psychological
risks. Learn more about Abortion Risks.indicate you are pregnant
It could be that you are not actually pregnant. We
provide a laboratory quality urine tests free of charge
as a service to women. A Client Advocate can provide
additional information relevant to your situation. All
of Our Services are free and confidential.
Confirm your pregnancy
with a doctor who doesn't do abortion
It is possible that the abortion facility may provide
you with incorrect information in order to obtain your
abortion fee. Carol Everett is a woman who used to
provide abortion services in Texas. She testified in
Congress that she sold abortions to women who were not
pregnant but feared they were. For the best medical
input on abortion we recommend you speak with a medical
professional that has nothing to gain in your abortion
decision.et a free ultrasound
You may receive a free ultrasound from a referral
organization. This non-diagnostic ultrasound can tell
you how many weeks you are into the pregnancy. This
service, provided by a certified sonographer, may aid
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Abortion is legal in the United States but bad medical
care is not. Women have died as a result of their "safe
and legal" abortions. Some have had their bodies hurt to
the point that they can no longer have children. If you
don't know the abortionist's name that is doing your
abortion, you may not find out. The abortionist could be
counting on you not holding him accountable for hurting
you because many women are afraid to let anyone know
about this choice afterwards. Ask for his name and write
it down.
Many women have said that they were so upset by the
emotion of the day that they signed anything put in
front of them in order to "get out and have it done
with." If the center asks you to sign anything, take
your time to read it over. If you don't understand
something, ask questions. If you don't understand their
answers, push them further. Don't be in a rush because
anything you sign could affect you in the future.
It is against the law for anyone to force you to have an
abortion. Not even a husband or parent can require you
to undergo an abortion against your will, even if you
are a minor (under 18 years old). Our center exists to
help you in any circumstance. We can help you discuss
this choice with those closest to you that are
influencing your decision. The law in many states also
requires abortion providers to give you information on:
1) possible complications, 2) the development of the
baby and 3) organizations that provide alternatives to
abortion.
Many women report that the general area of the facility
where they had their abortions was unclean, dusty and
even smelled bad. Infections can result from unsanitary
conditions. If you find yourself in a facility be sure
to question their sanitizing procedures and view the
condition of each room to ensure that you are receiving
excellent care. If they don't provide sufficient
information to determine these conditions, give yourself
permission to leave and demand a refund of your money.
Many women who have experienced abortion relay that they
felt they had to go through with the procedure once they
had entered the facility. Others say that they waited on
the abortion table to be "rescued" by their boyfriend at
the last minute. Some facilities even told the women
that they couldn't get their money back if they changed
their mind.
Abortion providers know that this is an agonizing
decision and sometimes see women change their mind at
the last minute because, as they say, "I simply can't do
this!" Know your rights. Don't be pressured or
intimidated. If the procedure is not performed, demand
your money back.
Some abortion facilities tell women that their babies
are not human at all but simply a "blob of tissue" or a
"dot". For many it is easier to have an abortion if they
believe their child isn't yet human. Ultrasound photos
show that at early stages of pregnancy the humanness of
the embryo is clearly evident. When some women see these
photos after their abortion they are overwhelmed and
grieved that the information the abortion facility
provides was misleading. An ultrasound will reveal the
true development of your child. Know you are not alone
Women who feel like they have no other choice often
change their minds when visiting our center and
understanding our support services. We exist to support
you in your pregnancy. We offer practical assistance to
help you overcome some obstacles.
www.thinkaboutitonline.com
1 Mainline Confirms hCG, Ann Arbor, Michigan: Mainline
Technology, Inc.
2 Carol Everett, What I Saw In The Abortion Industry,
Jefferson City, MO: Easton Publishing, Inc.
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